{"id":9816,"date":"2019-03-18T11:30:24","date_gmt":"2019-03-18T04:30:24","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/acaltc.com\/?p=9816"},"modified":"2019-03-18T11:30:24","modified_gmt":"2019-03-18T04:30:24","slug":"6-su-that-tan-nhan-khien-ban-tro-nen-tot-hon","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/acaltc.com\/en\/6-su-that-tan-nhan-khien-ban-tro-nen-tot-hon\/","title":{"rendered":"6 s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt t\u00e0n nh\u1eabn khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n tr\u1edf n\u00ean t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n"},"content":{"rendered":"

(B\u00e0i d\u1ecbch t\u1eeb David Wong. 6 Harsh Truths That Will Make You a Better Person<\/a><\/em>)
\nN\u00e0y, 2019 r\u1ed3i \u0111\u1ea5y, \u0111\u1ed3 b\u1ecf \u0111i. L\u00c0M TH\u00d4I.
\n\u201cL\u00e0m g\u00ec?\u201d b\u1ea1n h\u1ecfi. T\u00d4I KH\u00d4NG BI\u1ebeT. H\u00c3Y C\u00d9NG T\u00ccM HI\u1ec2U, H\u1ee0I \u0110\u1ed2 V\u00d4 D\u1ee4NG.
\nH\u00e3y d\u1eebng \u0111\u1ecdc b\u00e0i n\u00e0y n\u1ebfu s\u1ef1 nghi\u1ec7p c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n \u0111ang ti\u1ebfn tri\u1ec3n t\u1ed1t, b\u1ea1n h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac v\u1edbi cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 h\u00e0i l\u00f2ng v\u1edbi c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7. H\u00e3y t\u1eadn h\u01b0\u1edfng ph\u1ea7n c\u00f2n l\u1ea1i trong ng\u00e0y c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, b\u00e0i vi\u1ebft n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng d\u00e0nh cho b\u1ea1n. B\u1ea1n \u0111ang l\u00e0m m\u1ed9t c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi, t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 ch\u00fang t\u00f4i t\u1ef1 h\u00e0o v\u1ec1 b\u1ea1n.
\n\u0110\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nh\u00f3m c\u00f2n l\u1ea1i, t\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n th\u1eed tr\u00f2 n\u00e0y: K\u1ec3 n\u0103m \u0111i\u1ec1u \u1ea5n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng v\u1ec1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n. Vi\u1ebft ch\u00fang xu\u1ed1ng ho\u1eb7c h\u00e9t to l\u00ean. Nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec3m m\u1ea5u ch\u1ed1t \u2013 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c li\u1ec7t k\u00ea b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec b\u1ea1n l\u00e0<\/em><\/strong> (v\u00ed d\u1ee5: T\u00f4i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ch\u00e0ng trai t\u1ed1t, t\u00f4i trung th\u1ef1c), thay v\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 li\u1ec7t k\u00ea nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n l\u00e0m<\/em><\/strong> (v\u00ed d\u1ee5: t\u00f4i v\u1eeba v\u00f4 \u0111\u1ecbch gi\u1ea3i c\u1edd vua qu\u1ed1c gia, t\u00f4i l\u00e0m \u1edbt ngon nh\u1ea5t Massachusetts). N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n th\u1ea5y \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n, th\u00ec b\u00e0i n\u00e0y h\u1eb3n l\u00e0 d\u00e0nh cho b\u1ea1n, v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u1ef1c k\u1ef3 gh\u00e9t \u0111\u1ecdc n\u00f3. T\u00f4i ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 g\u1ee1 g\u1ea1c b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec t\u00f4i \u01b0\u1edbc ai \u0111\u00f3 n\u00f3i v\u1edbi t\u00f4i v\u00e0o kho\u1ea3ng n\u0103m 1995.<\/span>
\nL\u01b0u \u00fd: L\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ea7u t\u00f4i \u0111\u0103ng b\u00e0i n\u00e0y v\u00e0o th\u00e1ng 12\/2012 v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ebfn nay n\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 thu h\u00fat h\u01a1n 25 tri\u1ec7u l\u01b0\u1ee3t xem trang. V\u00ec th\u1ebf, n\u00f3 c\u0169ng \u0111\u00e1ng xem \u0111\u1ea5y. T\u00f4i th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean c\u1eadp nh\u1eadt n\u00f3 khi c\u00f3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i.<\/em><\/p>\n

6. Th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi ch\u1ec9 quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng g\u00ec c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nh\u1eadn t\u1eeb b\u1ea1n<\/h2>\n

Gi\u1ea3 d\u1ee5 ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n y\u00eau v\u1eeba b\u1ecb b\u1eafn. Anh\/c\u00f4 \u1ea5y n\u1eb1m tr\u00ean ph\u1ed1, ch\u1ea3y m\u00e1u v\u00e0 la h\u00e9t. M\u1ed9t anh ch\u00e0ng ch\u1ea1y v\u1ed9i t\u1edbi v\u00e0 n\u00f3i: \u201cH\u00e3y tr\u00e1nh ra.\u201d Anh ta nh\u00ecn nhanh v\u1ebft \u0111\u1ea1n c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 r\u00fat ra m\u1ed9t con dao b\u1ecf t\u00fai \u2013 anh ta \u0111\u1ecbnh ph\u1eabu thu\u1eadt ngay t\u1ea1i ch\u1ed7, tr\u00ean ph\u1ed1.
\nB\u1ea1n h\u1ecfi, \u201cAnh c\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 b\u00e1c s\u0129?\u201d
\nAnh ch\u00e0ng n\u00f3i, \u201cKh\u00f4ng.\u201d
\nB\u1ea1n n\u00f3i, \u201cNh\u01b0ng anh bi\u1ebft anh \u0111ang l\u00e0m g\u00ec, ph\u1ea3i kh\u00f4ng? Anh l\u00e0 c\u1ef1u qu\u00e2n y, hay l\u00e0 \u2026\u201d
\nL\u00fac n\u00e0y anh ch\u00e0ng t\u1ecf ra kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu. Anh ta n\u00f3i v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ch\u00e0ng trai t\u1ed1t, trung th\u1ef1c, lu\u00f4n \u0111\u00fang gi\u1edd. Anh ta n\u00f3i v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi con hi\u1ebfu th\u1ea3o, c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng phong ph\u00fa v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ea7y \u0111\u1ee7 c\u00e1c s\u1edf th\u00edch, v\u00e0 anh ta t\u1ef1 h\u00e0o r\u1eb1ng anh ta kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd n\u00f3i t\u1ee5c.
\nB\u1ed1i r\u1ed1i, b\u1ea1n n\u00f3i, \u201cChuy\u1ec7n \u0111\u00f3 th\u00ec li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfch g\u00ec khi [v\u1ee3 \/ ch\u1ed3ng \/ b\u1ea1n th\u00e2n \/ cha m\u1eb9] c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i \u0111ang n\u1eb1m ch\u1ea3y m\u00e1u \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y? T\u00f4i c\u1ea7n ai \u0111\u00f3 bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch ph\u1eabu thu\u1eadt v\u1ebft th\u01b0\u01a1ng do \u0111\u1ea1n b\u1eafn! Anh c\u00f3 l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c hay kh\u00f4ng?!? \u201d
\nB\u00e2y gi\u1edd, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng tr\u1edf n\u00ean k\u00edch \u0111\u1ed9ng \u2013 t\u1ea1i sao b\u1ea1n l\u1ea1i n\u00f4ng c\u1ea1n v\u00e0 \u00edch k\u1ef7 v\u1eady? B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 ph\u1ea9m ch\u1ea5t t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p kh\u00e1c n\u00e0o c\u1ee7a anh ta sao? Kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i b\u1ea1n v\u1eeba nghe anh \u1ea5y n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng anh \u1ea5y lu\u00f4n nh\u1edb ng\u00e0y sinh nh\u1eadt c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n g\u00e1i sao? V\u1edbi t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p c\u1ee7a anh ta, li\u1ec7u vi\u1ec7c anh ta c\u00f3 bi\u1ebft ph\u1eabu thu\u1eadt hay kh\u00f4ng<\/em><\/strong> c\u00f3 quan tr\u1ecdng?
\nTrong kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc ho\u1ea3ng lo\u1ea1n \u0111\u00f3, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd l\u1eafc vai anh ta b\u1eb1ng \u0111\u00f4i b\u00e0n tay \u0111\u1ea7y m\u00e1u c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 h\u00e9t, \u201cV\u00e2ng, tao \u0111ang n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng c\u00e1c ph\u1ea9m ch\u1ea5t ch\u1ebft ti\u1ec7t \u0111\u00f3 ch\u1eb3ng quan tr\u1ecdng<\/em><\/strong>, b\u1edfi v\u00ec trong t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3 n\u00e0y, tao ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n ai \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u1ea7m m\u00e1u<\/em><\/strong>, hi\u1ec3u ch\u01b0a th\u1eb1ng ngu?\u201d
\nV\u00e0 \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt kh\u1ee7ng khi\u1ebfp v\u1ec1 th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn: B\u1ea1n \u1edf trong t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng n\u00eau tr\u00ean m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y<\/em><\/strong>. Ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 \u0111i\u1ec1u, b\u1ea1n ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 anh ch\u00e0ng b\u1ed1i r\u1ed1i v\u1edbi con dao b\u1ecf t\u00fai. C\u00f2n t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0 n\u1ea1n nh\u00e2n v\u1ee5 x\u1ea3 s\u00fang.
\nN\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n bi\u1ebft l\u00fd do t\u1ea1i sao x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 xa l\u00e1nh b\u1ea1n, ho\u1eb7c t\u1ea1i sao b\u1ea1n d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 v\u00ec x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i to\u00e0n nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ea7n th\u1ee9 g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3<\/em><\/strong>. H\u1ecd c\u1ea7n nh\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c x\u00e2y, c\u1ea7n th\u1ee9c \u0103n \u0111\u1ec3 \u0103n, c\u1ea7n gi\u1ea3i tr\u00ed, h\u1ecd c\u1ea7n th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m. B\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ebfn hi\u1ec7n tr\u01b0\u1eddng kh\u1ea9n c\u1ea5p \u0111\u00f3, c\u1ea7m con dao b\u1ecf t\u00fai, t\u1eeb l\u00fac b\u1ea1n ra \u0111\u1eddi \u2013 th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m b\u1ea1n b\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0o th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi, b\u1ea1n tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t h\u1ec7 th\u1ed1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c thi\u1ebft k\u1ebf ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u00e1p \u1ee9ng nhu c\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi.
\nHo\u1eb7c l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n nhi\u1ec7m v\u1ee5 \u0111\u00e1p \u1ee9ng nh\u1eefng nhu c\u1ea7u \u0111\u00f3 b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t b\u1ed9 k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng c\u1ee7a ri\u00eang m\u00ecnh, ho\u1eb7c th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi s\u1ebd t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i b\u1ea1n<\/em><\/strong>, b\u1ea5t k\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 v\u00f4 h\u1ea1i v\u00e0 nh\u00e3 nh\u1eb7n \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ee9c n\u00e0o. B\u1ea1n s\u1ebd ngh\u00e8o, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd b\u1ecb b\u1ecf r\u01a1i trong gi\u00e1 l\u1ea1nh. Li\u1ec7u \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ed9c \u00e1c, ho\u1eb7c th\u00f4 b\u1ec9, ho\u1eb7c th\u1ef1c d\u1ee5ng? Th\u1ebf t\u00ecnh y\u00eau v\u00e0 l\u00f2ng t\u1ed1t th\u00ec sao \u2013 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng quan tr\u1ecdng \u01b0? T\u1ea5t nhi\u00ean. Nh\u01b0ng ch\u1ec9 khi ch\u00fang khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n l\u00e0m cho m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 m\u00e0 h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 t\u00ecm \u1edf n\u01a1i kh\u00e1c. \u0110\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n th\u1ea5y \u2026<\/p>\n

5. Nh\u1eefng k\u1ebb hippy \u0111\u00e3 sai<\/h2>\n

\u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 \u0111o\u1ea1n tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi nh\u1ea5t trong l\u1ecbch s\u1eed phim \u1ea3nh (C\u1ea2NH B\u00c1O: ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef c\u1ef1c \u0111oan): [\u0111o\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a phim Glengarry Glenn Ross, b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u t\u1eeb ph\u00fat th\u1ee9 10. B\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ecdc c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u00ecm xem tr\u00ean m\u1ea1ng, c\u00f3 ph\u1ee5 \u0111\u1ec1 ti\u1ebfng Vi\u1ec7t \u2013 ND<\/em>]
\n\u0110\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 xem video, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 b\u00e0i ph\u00e1t bi\u1ec3u n\u1ed5i ti\u1ebfng m\u00e0 Alec Baldwin th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n trong ki\u1ec7t t\u00e1c \u0111i\u1ec7n \u1ea3nh Glengarry Glenn Ross. Nh\u00e2n v\u1eadt c\u1ee7a Baldwin \u2013 ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n cho l\u00e0 nh\u00e2n v\u1eadt ph\u1ea3n di\u1ec7n \u2013 thuy\u1ebft tr\u00ecnh trong c\u0103n ph\u00f2ng \u0111\u1ea7y nh\u1eefng k\u1ebb kh\u00f9 kh\u1edd v\u00e0 l\u00e0m h\u1ecd cho\u00e1ng, n\u00f3i v\u1edbi h\u1ecd r\u1eb1ng t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 s\u1eafp b\u1ecb sa th\u1ea3i tr\u1eeb khi h\u1ecd \u201cch\u1ed1t\u201d doanh s\u1ed1 m\u00e0 h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u1ecbnh:
\n\u201cM\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi d\u1ec5 m\u1ebfn \u01b0? Kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00e1ng c\u1ee5c c\u1ee9t! Ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ed1 t\u1ed1t? C\u00fat m\u1eb9 m\u00e0y \u0111i! V\u1ec1 nh\u00e0 m\u00e0 ch\u01a1i v\u1edbi con. N\u1ebfu m\u00e0y mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y, h\u00e3y ch\u1ed1t<\/strong>!\u201d<\/em>
\nNh\u1eefng l\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 t\u00e0n b\u1ea1o, th\u00f4 l\u1ed7 v\u00e0 v\u00f4 l\u1ed1i kh\u1ee7ng khi\u1ebfp, nh\u01b0ng l\u1ea1i c\u0169ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u00e1t bi\u1ec3u trung th\u1ef1c v\u00e0 ch\u00ednh x\u00e1c v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi mong \u0111\u1ee3i t\u1eeb b\u1ea1n. S\u1ef1 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t l\u00e0, trong th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi th\u1ef1c, m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi cho r\u1eb1ng th\u1eadt kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i khi n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n theo c\u00e1ch \u0111\u00f3, n\u00ean h\u1ecd quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh r\u1eb1ng t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n l\u00e0 c\u1ee9 k\u1ec7 cho b\u1ea1n ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i.
\nC\u1ea3nh \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi t\u00f4i. Gi\u00e1 bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch, t\u00f4i s\u1ebd l\u1eadp tr\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u1ed3 b\u00e1o th\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u01a1i n\u00f3 m\u1ed7i s\u00e1ng. Alec Baldwin \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1eed gi\u1ea3i Oscar cho b\u1ed9 phim \u0111\u00f3 v\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u1ea3nh duy nh\u1ea5t anh ta tham gia<\/em>. Nh\u01b0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00f4ng minh \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ec9 ra<\/a>, thi\u00ean t\u00e0i c\u1ee7a b\u00e0i ph\u00e1t bi\u1ec3u \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0: n\u1eeda s\u1ed1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi xem n\u00f3 ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng \u00fd c\u1ee7a c\u1ea3nh \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u201cWow, c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c th\u1ebf n\u00e0o khi c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t th\u1eb1ng s\u1ebfp kh\u1ed1n nh\u01b0 v\u1eady? \u201d v\u00e0 n\u1eeda kia ngh\u0129, \u201cCh\u1ebft ti\u1ec7t, h\u00e3y ra \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng v\u00e0 b\u00e1n ch\u1ed7 b\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ed9ng s\u1ea3n gi\u1eddi \u0111\u00e1nh n\u00e0y th\u00f4i!\u201d
\nHo\u1eb7c, nh\u01b0 blog The Last Psychiatrist \u0111\u00e3 vi\u1ebft<\/a>:
\n\u201cN\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n \u1edf trong c\u0103n ph\u00f2ng \u0111\u00f3, m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 s\u1ebd hi\u1ec3u chuy\u1ec7n n\u00e0y l\u00e0 c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c, v\u00e0 d\u00f9 sao c\u0169ng h\u1ea5p thu \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u1ee7a th\u00f4ng \u0111i\u1ec7p, \u0111\u00f3n nh\u1eadn nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi ch\u1eedi r\u1ee7a t\u1eeb coach, \u2018anh ch\u00e0ng n\u00e0y th\u1eadt tuy\u1ec7t!\u2019; Trong khi s\u1ed1 kh\u00e1c s\u1ebd \u0111\u00f3n nh\u1eadn n\u00f3 t\u1eeb g\u00f3c nh\u00ecn ri\u00eang t\u01b0 (personal), g\u00e3 n\u00e0y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t th\u1eb1ng \u0111i\u00ean, anh c\u00f3 quy\u1ec1n g\u00ec m\u00e0 n\u00f3i gi\u1ecdng \u0111\u00f3 v\u1edbi t\u00f4i, ho\u1eb7c \u2013 nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng \u0111i\u1ec3n h\u00ecnh khi l\u00f2ng t\u1ef1 \u00e1i ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u1edbi s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh l\u1edbn h\u01a1n \u2013 l\u1eb7ng l\u1ebd g\u1eb7m nh\u1ea5m v\u00e0 t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c t\u00ecm ra th\u00f4ng tin \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1eadt m\u1eb7t g\u00e3 nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t k\u1ebb \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c gi\u1ea3. Th\u1eadt th\u1ecfa m\u00e3n l\u00e0m sao.<\/em> \u201d
\n\u0110o\u1ea1n tr\u00edch \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 t\u1eeb m\u1ed9t b\u00e0i ph\u00ea b\u00ecnh s\u00e2u s\u1eafc v\u1ec1 \u201cnh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1eadp d\u1ecb\u201d (hipster) v\u00e0 t\u1ea1i sao h\u1ecd d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 g\u1eb7p qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n trong t\u00ecm vi\u1ec7c (h\u00e3y \u0111\u1ecdc to\u00e0n b\u1ed9<\/a>), v\u00e0 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 l\u00e0: s\u1ef1 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t \u1edf hai lo\u1ea1i th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 \u0111\u00f3 \u2013 cay \u0111\u1eafng (bitter) hay \u0111\u1ea7y \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c (motivated) \u2013 l\u00e0 y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 l\u1edbn nh\u1ea5t quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh li\u1ec7u b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng tr\u00ean th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi hay kh\u00f4ng. Ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n, m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u00e1p tr\u1ea3 b\u00e0i ph\u00e1t bi\u1ec3u \u0111\u00f3 v\u1edbi d\u00f2ng c\u1ee7a Tyler Durden t\u1eeb Fight Club<\/em>: \u201cB\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n.\u201d
\nNh\u01b0ng, th\u1ef1c ra, b\u1ea1n ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u00f3. T\u1ea5t nhi\u00ean, \u201cc\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c\u201d v\u00e0 ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ti\u1ec7n ki\u1ebfm s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t, nh\u01b0ng trong c\u1ea3 hai tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p, b\u1ea1n ch\u1eb3ng l\u00e0 g\u00ec h\u01a1n t\u1ed5ng s\u1ed1 c\u00e1c k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng h\u1eefu \u00edch c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. Ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n, l\u00e0m m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 t\u1ed1t l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 th\u1ee9 m\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111em l\u1ea1i s\u1ef1 h\u1eefu \u00edch cho c\u00e1c th\u00e0nh vi\u00ean kh\u00e1c trong x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i. Nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1eebng nh\u1ea7m l\u1eabn: \u201cc\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c\u201d c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n \u2013 th\u1ee9 h\u1eefu \u00edch m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n l\u00e0m cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c \u2013 l\u00e0 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 b\u1ea1n<\/em>.
\n\u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u00fd do t\u1ea1i sao c\u00e1c b\u00e1c s\u0129 ph\u1eabu thu\u1eadt \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng h\u01a1n c\u00e1c nh\u00e0 v\u0103n h\u00e0i k\u1ecbch. Th\u1ee3 c\u01a1 kh\u00ed \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng h\u01a1n so v\u1edbi hipster th\u1ea5t nghi\u1ec7p. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u00fd do c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd \u0111\u1ee9ng c\u1ea1nh t\u00ean b\u1ea1n n\u1ebfu c\u00e1i ch\u1ebft c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n tr\u00ean tin t\u1ee9c (\u201cTi\u1ec1n \u0111\u1ea1o b\u00f3ng \u0111\u00e1 ch\u1ebft trong v\u1ee5 gi\u1ebft ng\u01b0\u1eddi \/ t\u1ef1 s\u00e1t\u201d). Tyler n\u00f3i: \u201cB\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n\u201d, nh\u01b0ng \u00f4ng c\u0169ng th\u00e0nh l\u1eadp v\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t c\u00f4ng ty x\u00e0 ph\u00f2ng th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng v\u00e0 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ee9ng \u0111\u1ea7u m\u1ed9t phong tr\u00e0o ch\u00ednh tr\u1ecb x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i qu\u1ed1c t\u1ebf. \u00d4ng ta ch\u00ednh l\u00e0<\/em> c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.
\nHo\u1eb7c th\u1eed ngh\u0129 c\u00e1ch n\u00e0y: B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 nh\u1edb khi Chick-fil-A ch\u1ed1ng l\u1ea1i<\/a> h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n \u0111\u1ed3ng t\u00ednh? V\u00e0 d\u00f9 phong tr\u00e0o ch\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed1i kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u01b0\u1edfng \u1ee9ng, c\u00f4ng ty v\u1eabn ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c b\u00e1n h\u00e0ng tri\u1ec7u b\u00e1nh sandwich m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y? \u0110\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 v\u00ec nh\u00e2n d\u00e2n \u0111\u1ed3ng \u00fd v\u1edbi h\u1ecd; \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 v\u00ec h\u1ecd l\u00e0m t\u1ed1t c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m b\u00e1nh sandwich ngon. V\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec quan tr\u1ecdng. B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i th\u00edch n\u00f3. T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch tr\u1eddi m\u01b0a v\u00e0o ng\u00e0y sinh nh\u1eadt c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i. Nh\u01b0ng n\u00f3 v\u1eabn m\u01b0a. M\u00e2y h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh v\u00e0 l\u01b0\u1ee3ng m\u01b0a x\u1ea3y ra. M\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 nhu c\u1ea7u v\u00e0 do \u0111\u00f3 g\u00e1n gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb cho nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e1p \u1ee9ng ch\u00fang. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng c\u01a1 ch\u1ebf \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n c\u1ee7a v\u0169 tr\u1ee5 v\u00e0 ch\u00fang kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00e1p \u1ee9ng mong mu\u1ed1n c\u1ee7a ta.
\nN\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3n \u0111\u1ed1i, r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi theo ch\u1ee7 ngh\u0129a t\u01b0 b\u1ea3n n\u00f4ng c\u1ea1n v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ed3ng \u00fd r\u1eb1ng ti\u1ec1n l\u00e0 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3, t\u00f4i ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i: C\u00f3 ai n\u00f3i g\u00ec v\u1ec1 ti\u1ec1n \u0111\u00e2u? B\u1ea1n \u0111ang b\u1ecf qua \u0111i\u1ec3m l\u1edbn h\u01a1n \u0111\u1ea5y.<\/p>\n

4. C\u00e1i b\u1ea1n l\u00e0m kh\u00f4ng nh\u1ea5t thi\u1ebft ph\u1ea3i ra ti\u1ec1n, nh\u01b0ng ph\u1ea3i h\u1eefu \u00edch cho m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/h2>\n

H\u00e3y th\u1eed m\u1ed9t v\u00ed d\u1ee5 phi t\u00e0i ch\u00ednh \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng t\u1eafc \u1edf \u0111\u00f3. \u0110a s\u1ed1 \u0111\u1ed9c gi\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i l\u00e0 nam gi\u1edbi \u1edf \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i tr\u00ean 20. V\u00ec v\u1eady, m\u1ed7i n\u0103m t\u00f4i nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u00e0i ch\u1ee5c c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n qua email t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng anh ch\u00e0ng kh\u1ed1n kh\u1ed5, c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n, kh\u0103ng kh\u0103ng r\u1eb1ng ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ebfn g\u1ea7n h\u1ecd m\u1eb7c d\u00f9 th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf h\u1ecd ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ch\u00e0ng \u0111\u1eb9p nh\u1ea5t th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi (ng\u00e0y nay, h\u1ecd c\u00f3 t\u00ean chung l\u00e0 \u201cIncels<\/a>\u201d \u2013 \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n kh\u00f4ng t\u1ef1 nguy\u1ec7n). T\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch suy ngh\u0129 n\u00e0y c\u00f3 g\u00ec, nh\u01b0ng c\u00f3 l\u1ebd s\u1ebd t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n n\u1ebfu t\u00f4i \u0111\u1ec3 Alec Baldwin gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch n\u00f3: [xem l\u1ea1i video \u1edf tr\u00ean \u2013 ND<\/em>]
\nTrong tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p n\u00e0y, Baldwin \u0111ang \u0111\u00f3ng vai ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. H\u1ecd s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch th\u1eb3ng th\u1eafn nh\u01b0 anh ta \u2013 x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u00e3 hu\u1ea5n luy\u1ec7n ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng th\u00e0nh th\u1eadt v\u1edbi m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u2013 nh\u01b0ng ph\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u00ecnh th\u00ec gi\u1ed1ng nhau. \u201cAnh t\u1ed1t b\u1ee5ng \u01b0? Th\u00ec c\u1ee9t g\u00ec? N\u1ebfu mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y, h\u00e3y ch\u1ed1t<\/em>.\u201d
\nV\u1eady \u0111\u1ea5y, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd \u0111\u1eb7t g\u00ec l\u00ean b\u00e0n? B\u1edfi v\u00ec c\u00f4 g\u00e1i trong hi\u1ec7u s\u00e1ch m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n m\u01a1 m\u1ed9ng v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c d\u01b0\u1ee1ng \u1ea9m cho khu\u00f4n m\u1eb7t c\u1ee7a c\u00f4 ta m\u1ed9t gi\u1edd m\u1ed7i \u0111\u00eam v\u00e0 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y t\u1ed9i l\u1ed7i khi c\u00f4 \u1ea5y \u0103n b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 th\u1ee9 g\u00ec kh\u00e1c ngo\u00e0i salad cho b\u1eefa tr\u01b0a, c\u00f4 \u1ea5y s\u1ebd tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh b\u00e1c s\u0129 ph\u1eabu thu\u1eadt sau 10 n\u0103m n\u1eefa. C\u00f2n b\u1ea1n?
\n\u201cG\u00ec v\u1eady, c\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i anh \u0111ang n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng c\u00f4 g\u00e1i nh\u01b0 v\u1eady tr\u1eeb khi t\u00f4i c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c t\u1ed1t v\u00e0 ki\u1ebfm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nhi\u1ec1u ti\u1ec1n?\u201d
\nKh\u00f4ng<\/em>, \u0111\u1ea5y l\u00e0 b\u1ed9 n\u00e3o c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n nh\u1ea3y \u0111\u1ebfn k\u1ebft lu\u1eadn \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 c\u1edb m\u00e0 lo\u1ea1i b\u1ecf t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i b\u1ea1n b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch cho r\u1eb1ng h\u1ecd n\u00f4ng c\u1ea1n v\u00e0 \u00edch k\u1ef7. T\u00f4i \u0111ang h\u1ecfi b\u1ea1n cung c\u1ea5p nh\u1eefng g\u00ec<\/em>? B\u1ea1n th\u00f4ng minh? H\u00e0i h\u01b0\u1edbc? H\u1ea5p d\u1eabn? C\u00f3 t\u00e0i? \u0110\u1ea7y tham v\u1ecdng? S\u00e1ng t\u1ea1o? OK, th\u1ebf b\u1ea1n l\u00e0m g\u00ec \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u1ee9ng minh nh\u1eefng thu\u1ed9c t\u00ednh \u0111\u00f3 v\u1edbi th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi? \u0110\u1eebng n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ch\u00e0ng trai t\u1ed1t \u2013 \u0111\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 t\u1ed1i thi\u1ec3u. Nh\u1eefng c\u00f4 g\u00e1i xinh \u0111\u1eb9p c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng ch\u00e0ng trai t\u1ed1t v\u1edbi h\u1ecd 36 l\u1ea7n m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y. B\u1ec7nh nh\u00e2n \u0111ang ch\u1ea3y m\u00e1u ngo\u00e0i \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 bi\u1ebft ph\u1eabu thu\u1eadt hay kh\u00f4ng<\/em>?
\n\u201cCh\u00e0, t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i k\u1ebb ph\u00e2n bi\u1ec7t gi\u1edbi t\u00ednh hay ph\u00e2n bi\u1ec7t ch\u1ee7ng t\u1ed9c hay tham lam hay n\u00f4ng c\u1ea1n hay l\u1ea1m d\u1ee5ng! Kh\u00f4ng nh\u01b0 nh\u1eefng k\u1ebb v\u1edb v\u1ea9n kh\u00e1c!\u201d
\nT\u00f4i xin l\u1ed7i, t\u00f4i bi\u1ebft \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y th\u1eadt kh\u00f3 nghe, nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m l\u00e0 li\u1ec7t k\u00ea m\u1ed9t lo\u1ea1t c\u00e1c t\u1ed9i l\u1ed7i b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng m\u1eafc ph\u1ea3i, th\u00ec, m\u1eb9 ki\u1ebfp, h\u00e3y tr\u00e1nh xa b\u1ec7nh nh\u00e2n ra. C\u00f3 m\u1ed9t anh ch\u00e0ng d\u00ed d\u1ecfm, \u0111\u1eb9p trai v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 nghi\u1ec7p \u0111\u1ea7y h\u1ee9a h\u1eb9n s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng b\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0o v\u00e0 ph\u1eabu thu\u1eadt.
\n\u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 l\u00e0m tan v\u1ee1 tr\u00e1i tim b\u1ea1n? OK, th\u00ec sao? B\u1ea1n s\u1ebd th\u1edf than, hay s\u1ebd h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch l\u00e0m ph\u1eabu thu\u1eadt? \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 t\u00f9y thu\u1ed9c v\u00e0o b\u1ea1n, nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1eebng ph\u00e0n n\u00e0n v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c c\u00e1c c\u00f4 g\u00e1i y\u00eau b\u1ecdn d\u1edf h\u01a1i; h\u1ecd y\u00eau nh\u1eefng k\u1ebb \u0111\u00f3 b\u1edfi v\u00ec nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 m\u00e0 h\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 cung c\u1ea5p<\/em>. \u201cNh\u01b0ng t\u00f4i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1eafng nghe tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi!\u201d Th\u1eadt \u00e0? B\u1edfi v\u00ec b\u1ea1n s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng ng\u1ed3i im l\u1eb7ng \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ed5i l\u1ea5y c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i \u1edf g\u1ea7n m\u1ed9t c\u00f4 g\u00e1i xinh \u0111\u1eb9p (v\u00e0 d\u00e0nh t\u1eebng gi\u00e2y \u0111\u1ec3 t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng l\u00e0n da c\u1ee7a c\u00f4 \u1ea5y ph\u1ea3i m\u1ec1m m\u1ea1i nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o)? Ch\u00e0, \u0111o\u00e1n xem, c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t ch\u00e0ng trai kh\u00e1c trong cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi c\u00f4 \u1ea5y c\u0169ng bi\u1ebft l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 v\u00e0 anh ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u01a1i guitar. N\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ch\u00e0ng trai t\u1ed1t gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t nh\u00e0 h\u00e0ng m\u00e0 \u01b0u \u0111i\u1ec3m duy nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 th\u1ee9c \u0103n kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m b\u1ea1n ph\u00e1t \u1ed1m. B\u1ea1n gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t b\u1ed9 phim m\u1edbi c\u00f3 ti\u00eau \u0111\u1ec1 l\u00e0 Phim n\u00e0y b\u1eb1ng ti\u1ebfng Anh<\/em> v\u00e0 l\u1eddi gi\u1edbi thi\u1ec7u l\u00e0 \u201cC\u00e1c di\u1ec5n vi\u00ean \u0111\u1ec1u r\u00f5 m\u1eb7t\u201d.
\nT\u00f4i ngh\u0129 \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 l\u00fd do t\u1ea1i sao b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u201cch\u00e0ng trai t\u1ed1t\u201d v\u00e0 v\u1eabn c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y t\u1ed3i t\u1ec7 v\u1ec1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n. Nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 \u2026<\/p>\n

3. B\u1ea1n t\u1ef1 gh\u00e9t b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1edfi v\u00ec b\u1ea1n ch\u1eb3ng l\u00e0m g\u00ec c\u1ea3<\/h2>\n

\u201c\u0110\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u1ed3i, c\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i anh \u0111ang n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng t\u00f4i n\u00ean ch\u1ecdn m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1c c\u00f4 g\u00e1i?\u201d
\nCh\u1ec9 khi b\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean trong cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch l\u00e0 \u201cB\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u bi\u1ebfn m\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh ki\u1ec3u ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 c\u00e1c c\u00f4 g\u00e1i mu\u1ed1n \u1edf b\u00ean\u201d.
\nB\u1edfi v\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 b\u01b0\u1edbc b\u1ecb b\u1ecf qua \u2013 lu\u00f4n lu\u00f4n l\u00e0 \u201cL\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 vi\u1ec7c?\u201d m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i \u201cL\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o t\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ki\u1ec3u ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 nh\u00e0 tuy\u1ec3n d\u1ee5ng mu\u1ed1n?\u201d \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u201cL\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o t\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng c\u00f4 g\u00e1i xinh \u0111\u1eb9p th\u00edch t\u00f4i?\u201d thay v\u00ec \u201cL\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o t\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ki\u1ec3u ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 c\u00e1c c\u00f4 g\u00e1i xinh \u0111\u1eb9p th\u00edch?\u201d Th\u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng, b\u1edfi v\u00ec c\u00e1i th\u1ee9 hai r\u1ea5t c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1ebd bu\u1ed9c b\u1ea1n t\u1eeb b\u1ecf nhi\u1ec1u s\u1edf th\u00edch c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 ch\u00fa \u00fd nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n \u0111\u1ebfn ngo\u1ea1i h\u00ecnh, hay nh\u1eefng g\u00ec kh\u00e1c m\u00e0 c\u00f3 Ch\u00faa m\u1edbi bi\u1ebft. B\u1ea1n th\u1eadm ch\u00ed c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ph\u1ea3i thay \u0111\u1ed5i t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch (personality)<\/em>\u00a0c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.
\n\u201cNh\u01b0ng t\u1ea1i sao t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 t\u00ecm th\u1ea5y m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00edch t\u00f4i nh\u01b0 t\u00f4i l\u00e0?\u201d b\u1ea1n h\u1ecfi. C\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi l\u00e0: v\u00ec con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ea7n c\u00e1c th\u1ee9<\/em>. N\u1ea1n nh\u00e2n \u0111ang ch\u1ea3y m\u00e1u, v\u00e0 ch\u1eb3ng l\u1ebd t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m l\u00e0 nh\u00ecn xu\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 ph\u00e0n n\u00e0n r\u1eb1ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u v\u1ebft th\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1 kh\u1ecfi?
\n\u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t video<\/a> kh\u00e1c (c\u1ea3nh kh\u00f3 coi).
\nAi xem video \u0111\u00f3 c\u0169ng l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c tr\u1edf n\u00ean vui v\u1ebb h\u01a1n m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat, m\u1eb7c d\u00f9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i v\u00ec c\u00f9ng l\u00fd do. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 cho m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi? T\u1ea1i sao kh\u00f4ng? \u0110i\u1ec1u g\u00ec ng\u0103n c\u1ea3n b\u1ea1n m\u1eb7c qu\u1ea7n x\u1ecbp v\u00e0 \u00e1o cho\u00e0ng r\u1ed3i l\u00ean s\u00e2n kh\u1ea5u v\u00e0 v\u1ea9y c\u1ee7a qu\u00fd c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n v\u00e0o m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi? Anh ch\u00e0ng \u0111\u00f3 bi\u1ebft b\u00ed m\u1eadt \u0111\u1ec3 chi\u1ebfn th\u1eafng trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi: l\u00e0m \u2026 b\u1ea1n g\u1ecdi \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 g\u00ec c\u0169ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u2026 th\u00ec t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m.
\n\u201cNh\u01b0ng t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng gi\u1ecfi g\u00ec c\u1ea3!\u201d Ch\u00e0, t\u00f4i c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t tin t\u1ed1t \u2013 h\u00e3y n\u00e9m \u0111\u1ee7 s\u1ed1 gi\u1edd luy\u1ec7n t\u1eadp v\u00e0o v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u1ecfi h\u1ea7u nh\u01b0 b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 th\u1ee9 g\u00ec. T\u00f4i l\u00e0 nh\u00e0 v\u0103n t\u1ed3i t\u1ec7 nh\u1ea5t th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi khi t\u00f4i c\u00f2n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb. T\u00f4i ch\u1ec9 kh\u00e1 h\u01a1n m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat \u1edf tu\u1ed5i 25. Nh\u01b0ng trong khi th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i th\u1ea3m h\u1ea1i trong s\u1ef1 nghi\u1ec7p, t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 d\u00e0nh th\u1eddi gian r\u1ed7i \u0111\u1ec3 vi\u1ebft trong trong t\u00e1m n\u0103m li\u1ec1n, m\u1ed9t b\u00e0i b\u00e1o m\u1ed7i tu\u1ea7n, tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi t\u00f4i ki\u1ebfm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ti\u1ec1n th\u1eadt t\u1eeb n\u00f3. Ph\u1ea3i m\u1ea5t 13 n\u0103m \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00f4i \u0111\u1ee7 t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1ec3 v\u00e0o danh s\u00e1ch b\u00e1n ch\u1ea1y nh\u1ea5t<\/a> c\u1ee7a Th\u1eddi b\u00e1o New York. T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 m\u1ea5t c\u1ee1 20.000 gi\u1edd luy\u1ec7n t\u1eadp \u0111\u1ec3 m\u00e0i gi\u0169a m\u00ecnh.
\nKh\u00f4ng th\u00edch vi\u1ec5n c\u1ea3nh \u0111\u1ed5 h\u1ebft th\u1eddi gian v\u00e0o m\u1ed9t k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng? Th\u1ebf th\u00ec, t\u00f4i c\u00f3 tin t\u1ed1t v\u00e0 tin x\u1ea5u. Tin t\u1ed1t l\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 ri\u00eang h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng th\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ee7 gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n tho\u00e1t ra kh\u1ecfi v\u1ecf b\u1ecdc c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u2013 T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1ea3i qua nhi\u1ec1u n\u0103m l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c v\u0103n ph\u00f2ng t\u1ebb nh\u1ea1t v\u00ec t\u00f4i bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng t\u00f4i \u0111ang h\u1ecdc m\u1ed9t k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng \u0111\u1ed9c \u0111\u00e1o nh\u1edd n\u00f3. M\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ecf cu\u1ed9c v\u00ec m\u1ea5t qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u th\u1eddi gian \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1ea5y k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3, v\u00ec h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u ra r\u1eb1ng qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3<\/em>.
\nTin x\u1ea5u l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn n\u00e0o kh\u00e1c<\/em>. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y, h\u00e3y ch\u1ed1t<\/em>.
\nB\u1edfi v\u00ec theo quan \u0111i\u1ec3m phi chuy\u00ean gia c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i, b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng gh\u00e9t b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh v\u00ec b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 l\u00f2ng t\u1ef1 tr\u1ecdng th\u1ea5p ho\u1eb7c v\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c th\u00f4 l\u1ed7 v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n. B\u1ea1n gh\u00e9t ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh v\u00ec b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m g\u00ec c\u1ea3<\/em>. Ngay b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u201cy\u00eau b\u1ea1n nh\u01b0 b\u1ea1n l\u00e0\u201d \u2013 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u00fd do t\u1ea1i sao b\u1ea1n \u0111au kh\u1ed5 v\u00e0 g\u1eedi th\u01b0 cho t\u00f4i h\u1ecfi r\u1eb1ng t\u00f4i ngh\u0129 b\u1ea1n n\u00ean l\u00e0m g\u00ec v\u1edbi cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. H\u00e3y l\u00e0m to\u00e1n: Bao nhi\u00eau th\u1eddi gian c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n d\u00e0nh cho vi\u1ec7c ti\u00eau th\u1ee5 nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 m\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c t\u1ea1o ra (TV, \u00e2m nh\u1ea1c, tr\u00f2 ch\u01a1i video, trang web) so v\u1edbi l\u00e0m ra th\u1ee9 ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh? Ch\u1ec9 c\u00e1i \u0111\u00f3 m\u1edbi l\u00e0m t\u0103ng gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t con ng\u01b0\u1eddi.
\n\u201cNh\u01b0ng to\u00e0n b\u1ed9 h\u1ec7 th\u1ed1ng \u0111\u00e3 m\u1ee5c n\u00e1t v\u00e0 tr\u00ean b\u1edd v\u1ef1c s\u1ee5p \u0111\u1ed5, c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng l\u00e0m g\u00ec ch\u1ee9?\u201d B\u1ea1n \u01a1i, n\u1ebfu h\u1ec7 th\u1ed1ng s\u1ee5p \u0111\u1ed5, h\u00e3y l\u1ea5y m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i \u1edf tr\u00ean v\u00e0 nh\u00e2n n\u00f3 l\u00ean g\u1ea5p ng\u00e0n l\u1ea7n. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng v\u00e0 n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0103n. C\u00e1c \u00f4ng ch\u1ee7 m\u1edbi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u01b0\u01a1ng cao ng\u1ecdn c\u1edd b\u00ecnh \u0111\u1eb3ng, nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd d\u1ea7n nh\u1eadn th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u00e0i n\u0103ng v\u00e0 l\u00f4i cu\u1ed1n v\u1eabn \u0111ang c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t. \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng thay \u0111\u1ed5i trong \u0111\u1eddi b\u1ea1n, v\u00e0 c\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u1eddi ch\u00fat ch\u00edt b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n

2. C\u00e1i \u1edf b\u00ean trong b\u1ea1n ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 \u00fd ngh\u0129a khi n\u00f3 khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n l\u00e0m g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3<\/h2>\n

\u201cNh\u01b0ng nh\u1eefng g\u00ec b\u00ean trong m\u1edbi quan tr\u1ecdng! M\u1eb9 t\u00f4i n\u00f3i v\u1eady!\u201d
\nTham gia v\u00e0o vi\u1ebft l\u00e1ch, t\u00f4i bi\u1ebft h\u00e0ng t\u00e1 nh\u00e0 v\u0103n \u0111\u1ea7y tham v\u1ecdng. H\u1ecd ngh\u0129 m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 nh\u00e0 v\u0103n, h\u1ecd t\u1ef1 gi\u1edbi thi\u1ec7u m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 nh\u00e0 v\u0103n trong c\u00e1c b\u1eefa ti\u1ec7c, h\u1ecd bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng s\u00e2u th\u1eb3m b\u00ean trong, h\u1ecd c\u00f3 tr\u00e1i tim c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t nh\u00e0 v\u0103n. \u0110i\u1ec1u duy nh\u1ea5t h\u1ecd c\u00f2n thi\u1ebfu l\u00e0 b\u01b0\u1edbc nh\u1ecf cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng, khi r\u1ed1t cu\u1ed9c h\u1ecd th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 vi\u1ebft<\/em>!
\nNh\u01b0ng, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 quan tr\u1ecdng? Li\u1ec7u \u201cvi\u1ebft c\u00e1c th\u1ee9\u201d c\u00f3 quan tr\u1ecdng kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ec3 quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh ai l\u00e0 ai v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 l\u00e0 \u201cnh\u00e0 v\u0103n\u201d?
\nV\u00ec t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a Ch\u00faa, \u0111\u00fang th\u1ebf<\/em>.
\nH\u00e3y xem, c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t lu\u1eadn \u0111i\u1ec3m t\u1ef1 v\u1ec7 th\u01b0\u1eddng th\u1ea5y cho t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i, v\u00e0 cho m\u1ecdi ti\u1ebfng n\u00f3i ph\u00ea b\u00ecnh trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 l\u00f2ng t\u1ef1 \u00e1i c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n n\u00f3i v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n, nh\u1eb1m ng\u0103n b\u1ea1n kh\u1ecfi ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m nh\u1eefng c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c c\u1ea3i thi\u1ec7n b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n kh\u00f3 nh\u1ecdc kia: \u201cT\u00f4i bi\u1ebft t\u00f4i l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ed1t \u1edf b\u00ean trong.\u201d \u0110\u00f4i khi n\u00f3 c\u00f2n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 \u201cT\u00f4i bi\u1ebft t\u00f4i l\u00e0 ai\u201d ho\u1eb7c \u201cT\u00f4i ch\u1ec9 ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 t\u00f4i.\u201d
\n\u0110\u1eebng hi\u1ec3u l\u1ea7m t\u00f4i; con ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u00ean trong b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 <\/em>\u2013 anh ch\u00e0ng t\u1ef1 tay x\u00e2y nh\u00e0 cho gia \u0111\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 v\u00ec con ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u00ean trong anh ta. M\u1ecdi \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ed3i t\u1ec7 b\u1ea1n t\u1eebng l\u00e0m \u0111\u1ec1u b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t xung l\u1ef1c x\u1ea5u, m\u1ed9t \u00fd ngh\u0129 quanh qu\u1ea9n trong h\u1ed9p s\u1ecd c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n cho \u0111\u1ebfn khi b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng theo n\u00f3. V\u00e0 m\u1ecdi \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m c\u0169ng v\u1eady th\u00f4i \u2013 \u201cb\u1ea1n l\u00e0 ai b\u00ean trong\u201d ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea5t tr\u1ed3ng \u1ea9n d\u1ee5, m\u00e0 t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 tr\u00e1i c\u00e2y c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n \u0111\u01a1m l\u00ean. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ea7n bi\u1ebft, v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec nhi\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn:
\n\u201cB\u1ea1n\u201d kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 g\u00ec ngo\u00e0i tr\u00e1i c\u00e2y \u0111\u00f3<\/em>.
\nKh\u00f4ng ai quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ea5t tr\u1ed3ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. \u201cB\u1ea1n l\u00e0 ai b\u00ean trong\u201d l\u00e0 v\u00f4 ngh\u0129a, ch\u1ec9 tr\u1eeb nh\u1eefng g\u00ec n\u00f3 t\u1ea1o ra cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c<\/em>.
\nB\u00ean trong, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 l\u00f2ng tr\u1eafc \u1ea9n l\u1edbn \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi ngh\u00e8o. Tuy\u1ec7t qu\u00e1. \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c b\u1ea1n l\u00e0m b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec v\u1ec1 n\u00f3? B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 nghe v\u1ec1 bi k\u1ecbch kh\u1ee7ng khi\u1ebfp trong c\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ed3ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 n\u00f3i, \u201c\u1ed2, nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb t\u1ed9i nghi\u1ec7p \u0111\u00f3. H\u00e3y cho ch\u00fang bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng ch\u00fang n\u1eb1m trong suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i\u201d? B\u1edfi v\u00ec, ti\u00ean s\u01b0 b\u1ea1n n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n l\u00e0m th\u1ebf \u2013 h\u00e3y t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u nh\u1eefng g\u00ec h\u1ecd c\u1ea7n v\u00e0 gi\u00fap cung c\u1ea5p n\u00f3. H\u00e0ng tr\u0103m tri\u1ec7u ng\u01b0\u1eddi g\u1eedi suy ngh\u0129 v\u00e0 c\u1ea7u nguy\u1ec7n sau m\u1ed7i v\u1ee5 n\u1ed5 s\u00fang h\u00e0ng lo\u1ea1t. Li\u1ec7u s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh t\u1eadp th\u1ec3 c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng suy ngh\u0129 t\u1ed1t \u0111\u00f3 t\u1ea1o ra nh\u1eefng g\u00ec? C\u1ee9t \u0111\u00e1i. Tr\u1ebb em ch\u1ebft m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y b\u1edfi v\u00ec h\u00e0ng tri\u1ec7u ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong ch\u00fang ta n\u00f3i v\u1edbi b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n r\u1eb1ng quan t\u00e2m c\u0169ng t\u1ed1t nh\u01b0 l\u00e0m. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u01a1 ch\u1ebf b\u00ean trong \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u khi\u1ec3n b\u1edfi ph\u1ea7n l\u01b0\u1eddi bi\u1ebfng trong n\u00e3o \u0111\u1ec3 ng\u0103n b\u1ea1n th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c.
\nC\u00f3 bao nhi\u00eau b\u1ea1n \u0111ang \u0111i quanh v\u00e0 n\u00f3i: \u201cC\u00f4 \u1ea5y \/ anh \u1ea5y s\u1ebd y\u00eau t\u00f4i n\u1ebfu c\u00f4 \u1ea5y \/ anh \u1ea5y bi\u1ebft t\u00f4i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00fa v\u1ecb th\u1ebf n\u00e0o!\u201d C\u00f3 th\u1eadt kh\u00f4ng? C\u00e1c suy ngh\u0129 v\u00e0 \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00fa v\u1ecb c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n ra nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o? Ch\u00fang \u0111\u00e3 khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m<\/em> g\u00ec? N\u1ebfu c\u00f4 g\u00e1i hay ch\u00e0ng trai trong m\u01a1 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t chi\u1ebfc camera gi\u1ea5u k\u00edn theo d\u00f5i b\u1ea1n su\u1ed1t m\u1ed9t th\u00e1ng, li\u1ec7u h\u1ecd c\u00f3 \u1ea5n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng g\u00ec h\u1ecd nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng? H\u00e3y nh\u1edb r\u1eb1ng, h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ecdc suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n \u2013 h\u1ecd ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 quan s\u00e1t. H\u1ecd c\u00f3 mu\u1ed1n tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng?
\nB\u1edfi v\u00ec t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec t\u00f4i y\u00eau c\u1ea7u b\u1ea1n l\u00e0m l\u00e0 \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng cho ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh nh\u1eefng ti\u00eau chu\u1ea9n m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n C\u01a1 \u0111\u1ed1c phi\u1ec1n ph\u1ee9c m\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec1 ngh\u1ecb duy nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 ai l\u00e0 \u201cc\u1ea7u nguy\u1ec7n cho h\u1ecd\u201d? N\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m b\u1ea1n ph\u00e1t \u0111i\u00ean ch\u1ee9? T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng b\u00ecnh lu\u1eadn v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c c\u1ea7u nguy\u1ec7n c\u00f3 t\u00e1c d\u1ee5ng hay kh\u00f4ng; \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng thay \u0111\u1ed5i th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf l\u00e0 h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ecdn m\u1ed9t lo\u1ea1i tr\u1ee3 gi\u00fap m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n r\u1eddi kh\u1ecfi sofa. H\u1ecd tr\u00e1nh m\u1ecdi t\u1ed9i l\u1ed7i, h\u1ecd ngh\u0129 nh\u1eefng suy ngh\u0129 trong s\u1ea1ch, \u201c\u0111\u1ea5t tr\u1ed3ng\u201d b\u00ean trong c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd thu\u1ea7n khi\u1ebft nh\u1ea5t c\u00f3 th\u1ec3, nh\u01b0ng qu\u1ea3 g\u00ec m\u1ecdc l\u00ean t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3? V\u00e0 h\u1ecd n\u00ean bi\u1ebft \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y h\u01a1n b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 ai \u2013 v\u00ec t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u00e1nh c\u1eafp ph\u00e9p \u1ea9n d\u1ee5 tr\u00e1i c\u00e2y t\u1eeb Kinh th\u00e1nh. Ch\u00faa Gi\u00easu \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 chuy\u1ec7n \u201cm\u1ed9t c\u00e1i c\u00e2y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 b\u1eb1ng qu\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a n\u00f3\u201d nhi\u1ec1u l\u1ea7n [Luke 6:43, Matthew 7:19, John 15:2 \u2013 ND<\/em>]. T\u1ea5t nhi\u00ean, Ch\u00faa Gi\u00easu kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i: \u201cN\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y, h\u00e3y ch\u1ed1t.\u201d Kh\u00f4ng, ng\u00e0i n\u00f3i, \u201d H\u1ec5 c\u00e2y n\u00e0o ch\u1eb3ng sanh tr\u00e1i t\u1ed1t, th\u00ec ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ed1n m\u00e0 ch\u1ee5m \u0111i.\u201d.
\nM\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u01b0\u1eddng kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng \u0111\u00fang khi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u00f3i v\u1eady, gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u00e1n B\u0110S \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng \u0111\u00fang khi Alec Baldwin n\u00f3i v\u1edbi h\u1ecd r\u1eb1ng h\u1ecd c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 bi r\u1eafn ho\u1eb7c th\u00f4i vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ec3 r\u1ed3i \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e0y cho anh ta. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y \u0111\u01b0a ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111i\u1ec3m cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng \u2026<\/p>\n

1. T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec b\u00ean trong b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ec1u ch\u1ed1ng l\u1ea1i s\u1ef1 c\u1ea3i thi\u1ec7n<\/h2>\n

T\u00e2m tr\u00ed con ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t b\u00ed \u1ea9n, v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd th\u1ea5y n\u00f3 h\u00e1o h\u1ee9c h\u01a1n khi h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng so v\u1edbi khi chi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ea5u ch\u1ed1ng l\u1ea1i b\u1eb1ng ch\u1ee9ng r\u1eb1ng n\u00f3 c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i thay \u0111\u1ed5i. T\u00e2m l\u00fd c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c trang b\u1ecb c\u01a1 ch\u1ebf ph\u00f2ng th\u1ee7 nhi\u1ec1u l\u1edbp, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c thi\u1ebft k\u1ebf \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1eafn h\u1ea1 b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 th\u1ee9 g\u00ec c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn ch\u00fang ph\u1ea3i d\u1ecbch chuy\u1ec3n \u2013 kh\u00f4ng tin th\u00ec h\u00e3y h\u1ecfi b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 k\u1ebb nghi\u1ec7n n\u00e0o. V\u00ec v\u1eady, ngay b\u00e2y gi\u1edd, m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ecdc \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y \u0111ang c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y n\u00e3o b\u1eafn ph\u00e1 m\u00ecnh v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng l\u00fd do mang t\u00ednh ph\u1ea3n x\u1ea1 t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean (gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 ph\u1ea3n x\u1ea1 \u0111\u1ea7u g\u1ed1i) \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u1ed1i b\u1ecf n\u00f3. T\u1eeb kinh nghi\u1ec7m b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, t\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng n\u00e0y th\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1ebfn d\u01b0\u1edbi d\u1ea1ng \u2026<\/p>\n

C\u1ed1 \u00fd di\u1ec5n gi\u1ea3i m\u1ecdi ph\u00ea b\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh x\u00fac ph\u1ea1m<\/h3>\n

\u201cH\u1eafn l\u00e0 ai m\u00e0 g\u1ecdi t\u00f4i l\u00e0 k\u1ebb l\u01b0\u1eddi bi\u1ebfng v\u00e0 v\u00f4 d\u1ee5ng! M\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ed1t s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi t\u00f4i nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf! H\u1eafn \u0111\u00e3 vi\u1ebft t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u1ec3 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh v\u01b0\u1ee3t tr\u1ed9i v\u00e0 khi\u1ebfn t\u00f4i c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y t\u1ed3i t\u1ec7 v\u1ec1 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh! T\u00f4i s\u1ebd t\u00ecm c\u00e1ch x\u00fac ph\u1ea1m h\u1eafn \u0111\u1ec3 g\u1ee1 h\u00f2a!\u201d<\/p>\n

T\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u01b0a tin \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u00e1nh nghe th\u00f4ng \u0111i\u1ec7p<\/h3>\n

\u201cAnh ch\u00e0ng N\u00c0Y d\u1ea1y t\u00f4i c\u00e1ch s\u1ed1ng? \u1ed2, c\u1ee9 nh\u01b0 h\u1eafn r\u1ea5t cao c\u1ea3 v\u00e0 v\u0129 \u0111\u1ea1i! \u0110\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t k\u1ebb vi\u1ebft v\u0103n ngu ng\u1ed1c tr\u00ean Internet! T\u00f4i s\u1ebd \u0111\u00e0o b\u1edbi \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 v\u1ec1 h\u1eafn \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00e1i kh\u1eb3ng \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u1eafn ngu ng\u1ed1c, v\u00e0 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec h\u1eafn n\u00f3i l\u00e0 ngu ng\u1ed1c! Anh ch\u00e0ng r\u1ea5t t\u1ef1 ph\u1ee5, l\u00e0m t\u00f4i ph\u00e1t m\u1eeda! \u201d<\/p>\n

T\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o gi\u1ecdng \u0111i\u1ec7u \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u00e1nh nghe n\u1ed9i dung<\/h3>\n

\u201cT\u00f4i s\u1ebd \u0111\u00e0o s\u00e2u \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y cho \u0111\u1ebfn khi t\u00f4i t\u00ecm th\u1ea5y m\u1ed9t tr\u00f2 \u0111\u00f9a x\u00fac ph\u1ea1m khi b\u1ecb \u0111\u01b0a ra kh\u1ecfi b\u1ed1i c\u1ea3nh, sau \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd ch\u1ec9 n\u00f3i v\u00e0 ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3! T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 nghe n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng ch\u1ec9 m\u1ed9t t\u1eeb<\/em> x\u00fac ph\u1ea1m c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn to\u00e0n b\u1ed9 cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch<\/em> tr\u1edf n\u00ean v\u00f4 ngh\u0129a!\u201d<\/p>\n

X\u00e9t l\u1ea1i qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9 c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh<\/h3>\n

\u201cM\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng t\u1ec7 l\u1eafm! T\u00f4i bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 su\u00fdt t\u1ef1 t\u1eed v\u00e0o th\u00e1ng tr\u01b0\u1edbc, nh\u01b0ng gi\u1edd t\u00f4i c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n r\u1ed3i! Ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 n\u1ebfu t\u00f4i c\u1ee9 l\u00e0m ch\u00ednh x\u00e1c nh\u1eefng g\u00ec t\u00f4i \u0111ang l\u00e0m, cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng m\u1ecdi vi\u1ec7c s\u1ebd \u1ed5n! T\u00f4i s\u1ebd c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u01b0\u1edbc ngo\u1eb7t c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, v\u00e0 n\u1ebfu t\u00f4i ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c t\u00e1n t\u1ec9nh c\u00f4 g\u00e1i xinh \u0111\u1eb9p \u0111\u00f3, cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng c\u00f4 \u1ea5y s\u1ebd quay l\u1ea1i!\u201d<\/p>\n

Gi\u1ea3 v\u1edd r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 c\u1ea3i thi\u1ec7n b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n n\u00e0o c\u0169ng s\u1ebd l\u00e0m m\u1ea5t ch\u1ea5t con ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1eadt c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n<\/h3>\n

\u201c\u1ed2, v\u1eady ph\u1ea3i ch\u0103ng t\u00f4i n\u00ean v\u1ee9t t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 truy\u1ec7n tranh c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 \u0111i t\u1eadp gym s\u00e1u gi\u1edd m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y v\u00e0 x\u1ecbt da r\u00e1m n\u1eafng? B\u1edfi v\u00ec \u0110\u00d3 L\u00c0 PH\u01af\u01a0NG \u00c1N KH\u00c1C DUY NH\u1ea4T.\u201d<\/p>\n

Tr\u00ec ho\u00e3n m\u1ecdi c\u1ea3i thi\u1ec7n b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n cho \u0111\u1ebfn khi to\u00e0n b\u1ed9 th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi thay \u0111\u1ed5i \u0111\u1ec3 ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n<\/h3>\n

\u201cN\u1ebfu t\u00f4i l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c ch\u0103m ch\u1ec9, t\u00f4i s\u1ebd gi\u00fap duy tr\u00ec m\u1ed9t h\u1ec7 th\u1ed1ng th\u1ed1i n\u00e1t! T\u1ea5t nhi\u00ean, h\u1ec7 th\u1ed1ng ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f3 l\u00fd do g\u00ec \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1eafng nghe t\u00f4i m\u1ed9t khi t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00f3ng g\u00f3p g\u00ec c\u1ea3, do \u0111\u00f3 t\u00f4i s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd \u1edf v\u00e0o v\u1ecb tr\u00ed \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i n\u00f3! \u201d
\n\u0110\u1ea1i lo\u1ea1i v\u1eady. H\u00e3y nh\u1edb r\u1eb1ng, ngh\u00e8o kh\u1ed5 r\u1ea5t l\u00e0 tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i (comfortable)<\/em>. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u00fd do t\u1ea1i sao r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ecdn n\u00f3. H\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac c\u1ea7n n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c. V\u00e0 c\u1ea3 can \u0111\u1ea3m n\u1eefa \u2013 b\u1edfi v\u00ec th\u1eadt v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i khi bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng m\u1ed9t khi b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng t\u1ea1o ra b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng, th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng ai c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ea5n c\u00f4ng th\u1ee9 b\u1ea1n t\u1ea1o ra. D\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng h\u01a1n nhi\u1ec1u khi ch\u1ec9 ng\u1ed3i v\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 tr\u00edch nh\u1eefng s\u00e1ng t\u1ea1o c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. B\u1ed9 phim n\u00e0y th\u1eadt ngu ng\u1ed1c. L\u0169 tr\u1ebb c\u1ee7a c\u1eb7p \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 b\u1ecdn h\u01b0 h\u1ecfng. Quan h\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a c\u1eb7p \u0111\u00f4i kh\u00e1c th\u00ec ch\u1ea3 ra g\u00ec. Th\u1eb1ng gi\u00e0u kia n\u00f4ng c\u1ea1n. Nh\u00e0 h\u00e0ng n\u00e0y th\u1ea3m h\u1ea1i. Nh\u00e0 v\u0103n Internet n\u00e0y l\u00e0 c\u1ee9t \u0111\u00e1i. C\u00f3 l\u1ebd t\u00f4i n\u00ean \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i m\u1ed9t comment th\u00f4 l\u1ed7 y\u00eau c\u1ea7u trang web sa th\u1ea3i anh ta. \u0110\u1ea5y nh\u00e9, t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 t\u1ea1o ra m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3.
\n\u1ed2, \u0111\u1ee3i \u0111\u00e3, t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 qu\u00ean \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1eadp \u0111\u1ebfn ph\u1ea7n \u0111\u00f3? V\u00e2ng, b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec b\u1ea1n c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng ho\u1eb7c t\u1ea1o ra \u2013 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t b\u00e0i th\u01a1, ho\u1eb7c m\u1ed9t k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng m\u1edbi, ho\u1eb7c m\u1ed9t m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 m\u1edbi \u2013 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh ngay l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c b\u1ecb bao v\u00e2y b\u1edfi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m (non-creator) v\u00e0 d\u00e8 b\u1ec9u n\u00f3. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eb7t b\u1ea1n, nh\u01b0ng h\u1ecd s\u1ebd l\u00e0m. Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n say x\u1ec9n kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n b\u1ea1n t\u1ec9nh t\u00e1o. Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n b\u00e9o ph\u00ec kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n b\u1ea1n b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u m\u1ed9t ch\u1ebf \u0111\u1ed9 t\u1eadp th\u1ec3 d\u1ee5c. Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n th\u1ea5t nghi\u1ec7p kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n th\u1ea5y b\u1ea1n b\u1eaft tay x\u00e2y s\u1ef1 nghi\u1ec7p.
\nH\u00e3y nh\u1edb r\u1eb1ng, h\u1ecd ch\u1ec9 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n n\u1ed7i s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh, v\u00ec d\u00e8 b\u1ec9u k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch bi\u1ec7n minh n\u1eefa cho vi\u1ec7c kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m g\u00ec c\u1ea3. \u201cT\u1ea1i sao t\u00f4i ph\u1ea3i t\u1ea1o ra g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 khi nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c t\u1ea1o ra to\u00e0n v\u1edb v\u1ea9n? T\u00f4i ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 vi\u1ebft m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed1n ti\u1ec3u thuy\u1ebft, nh\u01b0ng t\u00f4i ch\u1edd m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 hay, t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n vi\u1ebft ra m\u1ed9t th\u1ee9 nh\u01b0 Twilight<\/em>!\u201d Mi\u1ec5n l\u00e0 h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd l\u00e0m ra b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 th\u1ee9 g\u00ec, s\u1ea3n ph\u1ea9m c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd s\u1ebd m\u00e3i ho\u00e0n h\u1ea3o v\u00e0 v\u01b0\u1ee3t ra ngo\u00e0i s\u1ef1 ph\u00ea ph\u00e1n. Ho\u1eb7c, n\u1ebfu h\u1ecd l\u00e0m g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3, h\u1ecd s\u1ebd l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 m\u1ec9a mai. H\u1ecd s\u1ebd c\u1ed1 t\u00ecnh l\u00e0m th\u1eadt t\u1ec7 \u0111\u1ec3 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng \u0111\u00e2y kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1<\/em> c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. N\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd s\u1ebd r\u1ea5t tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi<\/em>c\u01a1. Kh\u00f4ng gi\u1ed1ng m\u1ea5y th\u1ee9 c\u1ee9t \u0111\u00e1i b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m.
\n\u0110\u1eebng l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3, \u0111\u1eebng l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 n\u1eefa. \u0110\u1ea5y l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec l\u00e0m cho m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi gh\u00e9t b\u1ea1n. \u0110\u1ea5y l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec l\u00e0m cho b\u1ea1n gh\u00e9t ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh.
\nV\u00ec v\u1eady, b\u1ea1n th\u1ea5y th\u1ebf n\u00e0o: m\u1ed9t n\u0103m k\u1ec3 t\u1eeb b\u00e2y gi\u1edd, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 deadline c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta. Trong khi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c \u0111ang n\u00f3i v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n \u201cH\u00e3y l\u1eadp k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch gi\u1ea3m 10kg trong n\u0103m nay!\u201d T\u00f4i s\u1ebd n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng h\u00e3y cam k\u1ebft th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u2013 th\u00eam b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng n\u00e0o, b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 c\u1ea3i ti\u1ebfn n\u00e0o v\u00e0o b\u1ed9 c\u00f4ng c\u1ee5 c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n, \u0111\u1ee7 gi\u1ecfi \u0111\u1ec3 g\u00e2y \u1ea5n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng v\u1edbi m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi. \u0110\u1eebng h\u1ecfi g\u00ec t\u00f4i \u2013 m\u1eb9 ki\u1ebfp, n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng quy\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00ec h\u00e3y ch\u1ecdn \u0111\u1ea1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3. Tham gia m\u1ed9t l\u1edbp h\u1ecdc v\u1ec1 karate, ho\u1eb7c khi\u00eau v\u0169, ho\u1eb7c \u0111\u1ed3 g\u1ed1m. H\u1ecdc n\u01b0\u1edbng b\u00e1nh. \u0110\u00f3ng chu\u1ed3ng chim. H\u1ecdc massage. H\u1ecdc m\u1ed9t ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef l\u1eadp tr\u00ecnh. L\u00e0m phim khi\u00eau d\u00e2m. \u0110\u00f3ng vai nh\u00e2n v\u1eadt si\u00eau anh h\u00f9ng v\u00e0 ch\u1ed1ng t\u1ed9i ph\u1ea1m. B\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u m\u1ed9t k\u00eanh vlog tr\u00ean YouTube. Vi\u1ebft cho Cracked<\/a>.
\nNh\u01b0ng \u0111i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng l\u00e0, t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n b\u1ea1n t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd l\u00e0m \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00f3 x\u1ea3y \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n (\u201cT\u00f4i s\u1ebd c\u00f3 b\u1ea1n g\u00e1i, t\u00f4i s\u1ebd ki\u1ebfm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nhi\u1ec1u ti\u1ec1n \u2026\u201d ). T\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n b\u1ea1n ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o vi\u1ec7c t\u1ea1o cho m\u00ecnh m\u1ed9t k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n tr\u1edf n\u00ean th\u00fa v\u1ecb v\u00e0 c\u00f3 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb h\u01a1n m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c<\/em>. \u201cT\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ti\u1ec1n \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ecdc n\u1ea5u \u0103n.\u201d Th\u1ebf th\u00ec, m\u1eb9 ki\u1ebfp, h\u00e3y google \u201cn\u1ea5u \u0103n th\u1ebf n\u00e0o\u201d. Ch\u1ebft ti\u1ec7t, b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i gi\u1ebft nh\u1eefng c\u00e1i c\u1edb tr\u00ec ho\u00e3n \u0111\u00f3. Ho\u1eb7c ch\u00fang s\u1ebd gi\u1ebft b\u1ea1n<\/em>.
\nB\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec \u0111\u1ec3 m\u1ea5t, v\u00e0 th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi c\u1ea7n b\u1ea1n, h\u01a1n bao gi\u1edd h\u1ebft. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 video<\/a> m\u1ed9t con ch\u00f3 corgi l\u0103n m\u00ecnh xu\u1ed1ng c\u1ea7u thang.
\n(H\u1ebft b\u00e0i d\u1ecbch)<\/em>
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\n<\/em>B\u1ea3n d\u1ecbch<\/a> c\u1ee7a t\u00e1c gi\u1ea3 Phan Ph\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0110\u1ea1t.<\/strong>\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n\n

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